DESC:
When I send a message now to a user on my server from an outside account. I am getting this from qmail.
OBSERVATION:
You are probably forwarding mail to yourself.
SOLUTION:
Check your /var/qmail/control/smtproutes file to make sure you are not sending mail to a relay which is sending back to you, and also look at your forwarding files, .qmail, .qmail-default etc.